Saturday, October 20, 2007

Guilty Pleasure

Everyone has at least one guilty pleasure.....I don't mean in something illegal that involves you in snorting coke and printing your own counterfeit money!! hehehe. Its that lifestyle guilty pleasures, a true catch-all for everything and anything we're just a wee bit embarrassed by. I say that guilty pleasures put colour in life, and who are we to deny ourselves? indeed, hehehehe. Fess all, we all give in to temptation from time to time.


These are my list of guilty pleasures.


1. Books! books! books! I love books! I love to read about many things. Families and friends (esp BBF) learn not to accompany me to book stores as I can spend many, many, hours in a bookshop -- my haven!!. I have a large collection of books. I admit that there are some I haven't read yet or some which I haven't the time to read all the way through. Books -- my luxury and ultimate indulgence!!


2. A girl and her shoes - a definite cliché!! When it comes to shoes, I don’t need a reason. hehehe. Shoes are the perfect accessory!! They can make or break an outfit, furthermore a pair of perfect shoes makes your look taller (heels rules!). Suffice to say, I love all kinds of shoes. When it comes to those high-fashion (re: short shelf life) shoes, I buy the cheap version or wait for sales. No sense in spending big money on something I won’t be wearing in a year. Like all true shoe mavens, I covet the true jewels — Gucci, Chanel, Ferragamo, Prada, Tod, Jimmy Choo, Manolo Blahnik and of course Christian Louboutin. I am not ashamed to admit that I salivate over a pair of Christian Louboutin in magazines. My ultimate dream-- moi wearing a pair of strappy, spike heeled Christian Louboutin. I know for sure the price will be v.v.v. steep but hey I sure will look stylish and gorgeous in my Louboutin. hehehehe



3. I love manicure and pedicure. Clean, trimmed cuticles. Callouses removed. Bliss!! Its pure indulgence to sit back and relax, my feet soaking in a warm, scented water while one woman pampers my tootsies while another tends to my hands. I think its sexy to extend a freshly manicured hand to someone. And your strappy heels (see above) always look just that much better with feet that don’t look like they’ve been through the battle of callouses.


4. "The Oprah Winfrey Show". I love Oprah and I am not ashamed to admit it. I schedule my activities around “Oprah”. Family members and BBF know that I am not to be disturbed when I am watching Oprah. They don't dare!!! hehehehe.


5. I read those trashy magazines or tabloids. Even though it is 90% escapism for me, I do tell myself it shines a light on pop culture and it is also just pure sleazy fun.


6. Favorite junk-food treat: samboi. Samboi is dried, preserved pitted plums or prunes. The sourness/saltiness is so strong that they become their own exquisite form of torture. That just makes me want more. A curiosity at first, they demanded a try. With one bite, you were either hooked — or vowed never to touch the vile things again. Hidden in the bedroom drawer, they firmly command respect. hehehhee


7. Chocolate -- Enough said!!!


8. I love hair product especially shampoo and conditioner. I love the smell of freshly washed hair!!! My crowning glory deserves the best baby!!! It's impossible not to reward ourselves with a little self-indulgence from time to time.


9. I am obsessed with E! channel. I reckon this obsession stem from my interest in pop culture!!! See no: 5. Its gratifying to know that celebs have their off days too. They are not perfect esp after watching their faux pas on live television!!! Its pure sleazy fun!!!


10. I give special names to my frenemies. Hehehe


We all have that secret indulgences that fill us with joy and shame in equal measure. Now is the chance to get it off your chest. I dare you!!!




Monday, October 15, 2007

Raya Celebration


10 good reasons why I love Hari Raya.


1. Hari Raya is a celebration of goodwill, forgiveness, fellowship, peace and unity.


2. The Hari Raya festival is not only celebrated by Muslims but friends of other religions too.

3. Hari Raya is special because this is the time for families far and near to get together, eat some good food, and have fun!!! There are lots of that kodak moments too.


4. Hari Raya is a joyous occasion for all. We get to visit friends and relatives' open houses and everyone is welcomed.


5. The highlight of the Raya celebration is the spectacular fireworks, which turned the neighbourhood into a wonderland of light and colour. It produced a fantastic variety of enormous glittering patterns in the night sky.

6. The festive atmosphere is displayed by everyone wearing their best attires, and decorating their homes, and feeding guests and anyone who knocks on the door. i


7. The smiles on children's faces when they receive the green packet.


8. No one is on a diet during Raya....


9. You can start your puasa enam after the first day of Raya.


10. Just because Hari Raya is celebrated for one month in Brunei.


If you have a list, what will be on it???.

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Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Selamat Hari Raya Aidil Fitri

Muslims all over the world are still celebrating Ramadan - a holy month. This is a month that warrant good behaviours to all Muslim believers. We are to "see no evil, speak no evil, hear no evil and do no evil".

Hari Raya, is a Muslim holiday that marks the end of Ramadan, the month of fasting. Because the day depends on the sighting of the moon, the sighting can only be possible just after sunset. For those living in Brunei Darussalam, the moon will be sighted tomorrow. If the moon is observed, Hari Raya will be celebrated on friday. If not, saturday is Hari Raya/Eid Mubarak. For Muslims, Eid ul-Fitr/Hari Raya Aidilfitri is a joyous occasion with important religious significance, celebrating of the achievement of enhanced piety. It is a day of forgiveness, moral victory, peace of congregation, fellowship, brotherhood and unity. It is a time of giving and sharing.

Takbir is a Muslim tradition which is usually observed on Hari Raya.
The Takbir is recited after confirmation that the moon of Syawal is sighted on the eve of the last day of Ramadan.

Allahu akbar, Allahu akbar, Allahu akbar الله أكبر الله أكبر الله أكبر
la ilaha illa Allah لا إله إلا الله
Allahu akbar, Allahu akbar الله أكبر الله أكبر
wa li-illahi al-hamd ولله الحمد
God is the Greatest, God is the Greatest, God is the Greatest
There is no deity but God
God is the Greatest, God is the Greatest
and to God goes all praise
To all my Muslim sisters and brothers, Selamat Hari Raya Aidil Fitri, Maaf Zahir & Batin. Eid ul-Fitr to all of you.



Monday, October 8, 2007

Desert Island

Imagine the scenario... you are going to be on a desert island, alone, for one month. Do you have what it takes to be a survivor? You don't have to worry about water and heat --there's a stream on this island and plenty of firewood.

Twinkle's Desert Island Survival Kit
(Limit to 10 items. Never let it be said I can’t be frugal.)

1. 1 food essential: broccoli rules. I Love my veg!!

2. A must have: sunblock.

3. 1 person from history: Charles Darwin -- Imagine having an interesting discussion about the evolution theory and the law of natural selection by firelight!!! Darwin's theory of evolutionary selection holds that variation within species occurs randomly and that the survival or extinction of each organism is determined by that organism's ability to adapt to its environment. If I'm bored with him....he can entertain me. He's a "monkey" anyway!!! Monkeys are natural born entertainers!!! hahahaha.

4. 1 item I can't live without: my allergy pills

5. 1 luxury item: lip-balm -enough said!!

6. 2 items of choice: A journal and a pen. I have to record my trials and tribulations!!

7. Contraband: A radio. Imagine (worst case scenario), the little island can only picked up just one station that played only dangdut music. Thank God for Darwin the entertainer!!! See item no:3

8. My secret stash of frozen Twix.

9. My new sparkly flip flops. Not great for running, but they’re soooo cute, and just because a girl’s stranded doesn’t mean she can abandon her fashion sense.

10. Matches....loads of them.

What would you bring?? and Why??


Thursday, October 4, 2007

October Ode

It has been heartening to know that my "ode to the family" is so popular among the clan!!! As promised, dedications will be bestowed upon 2 family members this month. Pseudonyms are used to spare the nominees' blushes. Once you have read my description...you know who this dedication is for...

"Mistress of Herbs".
This is a very special person in the family. Relatives near and far for sure come to see her. She is a consultant, an adviser, a masseur, a shaman and a healer. I have a very interesting relationship with her. At times, we don't see eye-to-eye and she nags!!! In spite of this, I do love and honour her. When it matters, she is always there. This tribute is to honour her place and contribution in the family as the matriarch.

"Master of the sea".
This person is the eldest in the family. I can say that he is one of the artists in the family. He loves to work with wood. He is a lover of all creatures great and small. I think his greatest passion is fish and the sea. This love can be observed in his collection of fish memorabilia. His life and work revolves around the ocean. He is the real Master of the Sea.

Wednesday, October 3, 2007

October Babies

Its birthday galore again!! To the October babies -- all my best wishes and love on your day.

1st October
Happy Birthday A-i-f -- Hugs from all of us.

William Boeing (Aeronautic engineer/pioneer) was born on this day. Today is World Vegetarian Day!

12th October
Its the eldest in the family!! Happy "hatch day" Mr.Z - We all love you!!

Luciano Pavarotti (opera singer) was born. Its Mother's Day for the people living in Malawi.

26th October
The late Boy's birthday. In loving memory, "Al-Fatihah"
N-s-a also celebrates her birthday today. Hugs from all the clan.

Hillary Clinton (former US First Lady/US Senator) was born. On this day in history, 26 Oct 2000; Sony launches the Playstation2.

October stones
Opal, Pink Tourmaline and Aquamarine.

October Flowers
Marigold, Rose and Camellia.