A day at the beach

Location: Meragang Beach, Brunei Darussalam

Enjoy the pictures folks.

B.e.t.r.a.y.a.l.

Someone recently asks me to write a topic on betrayal. An act of betrayal is the most vilest and bitchiest thing a person can do to another person. I am sure that we all have been betrayed in some form or another, at some point in our lives. I have been betrayed by deceitful and disloyal co-workers and bosses, my so-called friends and old flames. Their betrayals come in different forms. Shattered, hurt, angry, numb and heartbroken are some of the emotions that we all experience when we have been betrayed so cruelly and in our hearts we cried for justice and revenge. Read on!!

On the other side of the coin, an act of betrayal on us can make us stronger and wiser. In others, it makes them more cynical about people and the issue of trust. I was betrayed by my so-called friends a long time ago. Since that time, I have been very careful about whom I befriended. I have very close friends who are loyal to a fault and will never ever betray me. They love me to bits!

However, despite our caution against 'traitors', betrayal is everywhere. I mean, it helps to know that we are not alone when it comes to betrayal. Broken trust is a universal experience. Generally speaking, the more we trust a person, the greater the impact their betrayal has on you, then the greater the distress you will feel. Obviously, the most immediate effect of the betrayal of trust is in the emotional impact on the person betrayed. We are all vulnerable to these painful emotions.

The aftermath of misplaced loyalties - disbelief, hurt, rage and perhaps revenge. When a person feels that s/he has been betrayed, s/he may seek some form of justice, putting right into what s/he feels has been wronged, including her/his sensibilities. Confession time -- I once helped a friend dished revenge on her cheating boyfriend. Details must be brief to protect the innocent and the not-so-innocent. hehehehe. Lets just say that, when my friend's cheating, loser of a boyfriend came home from his jaunt overseas, he discovered plants growing all over his carpet. hehehehe. The how and the when will remain strictly confidential. Well, to my friend, revenge is a dish best served cold and justice had prevailed especially when her former boyfriend is extremely house proud. For more stories on revenge, Padian is the best source. For the most part, I have been really, really good. Revenge is a dish best not served. Anger is not a good companion and it will always cloud our judgment. How do I deal with traitors? Well, I just kill the disloyal and toxic rodents in my head. I give them names to suit their deceitful personalities and to amuse me. hehehehe. Anyway, God is fair. What goes around comes around. Selamat Berpuasa everyone. Be good. See no evil, hear no evil and speak no evil.


BigGirl -- this entry is especially for you.

More Felines

These are some of my favourite pictures of the cats. They are so cute!!

This is Cha Cha - the undisputed Empress of the cats

This is Carrot the cat - my big baby

Kebab - the mischievous

Introducing Blackberry - the baby of the lot

September Babies

Hello! It's that time of the month again. Birthdays!!! I love birthdays especially other people's. So, to family members and friends, happy, happy birthday. As this is a special month for muslims, lets hope that this month will be filled with peace, love and lots of blessings.

4 Sept
L--u Tu--n

Famous People
Beyonce Knowles
Damon Wayans


5 Sept
R-i-a-a

Famous People
Freddie Mercury
Jesse James


13 Sept
M---s

Famous People
Ben Savage
Roald Dahl


16 Sept
A--s

Famous People
Marc Anthony
Lauren Bacall


17 Sept
J-c--i

Famous People
John Ritter
Roddy McDowall


18 Sept
R--n-h

Famous People
Lance Armstrong
Jada Pinkett Smith


21 Sept
N-z--n

Famous People
Nicole Richie
H.G.Wells

Happy Birthday September babies. HugsXXX