Monday, May 5, 2008

Plastic Bags

Plastic bags are widely used around the globe. They are cheap to produce, sturdy and easily available. They can be considered as convenient "vessels" to carry our purchases from a shop to a home. I don't know exactly how much we are using world-wide but i'm sure the number must be huge!!! We use plastic bags for a lot of things. They are so multi-purpose; for storage, to line our dustbins, carry our stuff etc. The sight of plastic bags is so common that it does raise questions about the impact they have on the environment. It has been suggested that plastic bags take hundreds of years to biodegrade. Their impacts on the environment have also inspired and sparked heated debates amongst scientists and environmentalists. Plastic bags thrown away as litter, dirty our public places and may even clog up drains. They are said to clutter landfills. They can be seen flapping from trees! They float in the breeze. It's official people,the totes are everywhere and plastic bags are here to stay!!! We can even see them drift on the high seas. Hello!!! I don't think any other product can beat the common plastic bags!!!







Plate 1. Colourful plastic bags




Plate 2. Totes-o-totes



Why the big concern??? I believe strongly that we use plastic bags in Brunei Darussalam indiscriminately and at a drop of a hat. They are everywhere and are so easily available. Their usage can be very wasteful too. There is this particular supermarket chain that will wrap your purchase in brown paper (don't let me start on paper wastage!!!) before inserting the item into a plastic bag. No matter how hard you protest over this waste -- the tellers always said its the shop's policy!!! What!!! :@ There's also this big retail company that will wrap your purchase into a small plastic bag before inserting them into another plastic bag!!! How daft is that!!! How wasteful!!!???


However, there's light at the end of the tunnel. I notice that there are now reusable bags made available for sale at some supermarket outlets. You know what would be great....aside from the sale of these biodegradable bags, retailers should train their cashiers to ask shoppers in a polite manner if they need a plastic bag for small purchases. However, at the end of the day... it comes down to us. We have the choice!! What can we do to reduce wastage on plastic bags usage??? As a start begin to limit and eventually stop consumption of plastic bags. Bring your own bag when you go shopping! Say ‘No’ to plastic bags when buying only a few small items. Do not throw away excess plastic bags as a waste item. Reuse or recycle them.


Mantra-o-mantra "Reduce, Reuse and Recycle"











Saturday, May 3, 2008

SnapShots

I was looking at some of the pictures that I took of the kids when I came across these glossies. They say "a picture paints a thousand words" -- these photos definitely illustrate kids, nature, enjoyment and serenity. Although, I must admit that I would never put kids and serenity in the same bracket!! har!har! :)



Plate 1. R & L at Tasek Lama.


Plate 2. L, R, A, Pkn & Pbs at Bukit Shahbandar.


Enjoyment of outdoor spaces has always been important to us. As such, Tasek Lama and Bukit Shahbandar are popular recreation parks in Brunei Darussalam. People visit the parks for various reasons -- leisure; to jog, hike, repose and so on. The relevant government agencies provide a range of activities and facilities for visitors to enjoy at the parks. However, I cannot help but notice that some of these visitors do not seem to appreciate the parks. A few minority litter, vandal and even deface the parks facilities. These are definitely appalling behaviours. This minority are a few too many!!!


That brings me back to the topic of this very post -- kids and nature. You might ask...is there a need to 'manage' people's leisure? Why the concern??? Nature provides us, in the natural environment with abundant resources for leisure and recreation. I think it is our utmost duty to protect, conserve and and manage our parks for our common future. Do join me in the following park codes in order to help protect our natural heritage;

  • keep our parks clean
  • respect nature
  • keep wildlife wild - do not feed or disturb animals; or remove native plants
  • keep to defined paths and trails
  • be considerate of other park users

I think these guidelines are very simple to follow. If everyone abides by this code, then our children's children will be able to enjoy our recreation parks in their splendour.


Friday, May 2, 2008

10 Things We Waste

I was blog-hopping when I came across this very interesting entry -- "10 things we waste". The title definitely caught my interest. Now, the 10 items listed below may have religious connotations, however, I think we should take stock and benefit, of not only reading this but also reflect on its content.


10 Things We Waste

1. Our Knowledge

Wasted by not taking action with it.

2. Our Actions

Wasted by committing them without sincerity.

3. Our Wealth

Wasted by using on things that will not bring us ajr (reward from Allah). We waste our money, our status, our authority, on things which have no benefit in this life or in the akhirah (hereafter).

4. Our Hearts

Wasted because they are empty from the love of Allah (swt) and his Messenger (sallallahu ‘alahi wasallam), and a feeling of peace and contentment. In it’s place, our hearts are filled with something or someone else.

5. Our Bodies

Wasted because we don’t use them in ibadah (worship) and service of Allah.

6. Our Love

Our emotional love is misdirected, not towards Allah, but towards something/someone else.

7. Our Time

Wasted, not used properly, to compensate for that which has passed, by doing what is righteous to make up for past deeds.

8. Our Intellect

Wasted on things that are not beneficial, that are detrimental to society and the individual, not in contemplation or reflection.

9. Our Service

Wasted in service of someone who will not bring us closer to Allah, more on something that will benefit us in dunya.

10. Our Dhikr (Remembrance of Allah)

Wasted, because it does not affect us or our hearts.


Source: Living Islam

Personally, the 10 items are relevant regardless of your religious belief or ideology (apply it to fit your particular interest) because unfortunately waste is so much part of our lives.

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Thursday, May 1, 2008

May Babies

Here's wishing the May Babies a very, very happy birthday. It is said that this month is named for the Greek Goddess, Maia. In some culture, May is considered to be the month of regeneration and growth. It also symbolises flowers and crops -- harvest time and it's time to party!!!


2 May
S--g

Famous People
David Beckham

4 May
L---a

Famous People
Audrey Hepburn

8 May
Favourite Aunty -- BFF's mum

Famous People
Enrique Iglesias

9 May
W--a

Famous People
Billy Joel

10 May
S--r--a

Famous People
Fred Astaire

11 May
S-f-a

Famous People
Salvador Dali

16 May
Y----n

Famous People
Janet Jackson

18 May
G--r--e

Famous People
Chow Yun Fat

21 May
N--s

Famous People
Mr. T


22 May
Z--a

Famous People
Arthur Conan Doyle


23 May
Me, Myself & I

Famous People
Mitch Albom
Jewel


26 May
H---i

Famous People
John Wayne


May symbol: The hawthorn and lily of the valley are considered the flowers of May
May birthstone: Emerald
May fruit or vegetable: Rhubarb or Gooseberries
May herb: Dandelion
May colour: Green

Motivation for the Month: Humility is not thinking less of yourself, rather thinking of yourself less.


Then came fair May, the fairest maid on ground,
Deck'd all with dainties of the season's pride,
And throwing flowers out of her lap around.
~Edmund Spenser~



Happy Birthday to all the May babies. May this month brings us good things in life: good health, happiness and peace. Hugs and kisses to all of my May babies. XXXX

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Perfect Mates

This blog is inspired by Padian's latest entry. How to find the perfect mate, stay in love and be faithful with the same person for the rest of your life and yet be a person in your own right, with separate identity from your spouse. Wow, i feel exhausted just thinking about that!!!

We all acknowledged that mate selection is a highly complex processs and it is the most crucial decision of our lives. We spend a huge amount of time and energy trying to find that special someone. Yet we are often not satisfied. We seem as much in the dark as ever about who is a suitable match for us.

What made us fall in love with that special someone? I know of people with list of exacting attributes for that perfect someone. These are the typical items on the list;

  • Attractive
  • Stable job
  • Good family background
  • Brainy
  • Good body
  • Age between ??? to ???
  • Personality


Preferences for these qualities - beauty, brains and resources - are universal. If you ask me, what do i look for in a mate..., i know for sure what i do not want;

  • workaholic
  • commitment phobic
  • stingy git
  • possessive loser
  • feline hater
  • insensitive & chauvinistic lout
  • ultra-needy
  • unfaithful jerk
  • negative personality


There you got it!! My list of don'ts. However, at the end of the day -- always trust your instincts. My advice is : You are in the driving seat; its your life and you have to choose what is RIGHT or the BEST for you and yours.

It has been suggested that falling in love with that special someone has been attributed to ineffable chemistry. Who we fall for is determined by a mix of factors, some of which we are aware of, some of which we experience indirectly. Happenstance can play a major role too. For, what its worth, be with someone because s/he values you not because you have to have someone by your side!!!! Remember, you hoped to be with that person for the rest of your life and as such you have to be together for the right reasons in the first place.




Friday, April 11, 2008

Cats Gallery

The pictures of my four legged friends are so adorable that I simply have to share them.



Plate 1. Mr. C is having a catnap



Plate 2. Silver tabby owns the bed



Plate 3. Oyster and Kebab



Plate 4. Patch and her books.

It's a battle zone every day between the felines. Kebab is a tease. His favourite past time is baiting the silver tabby. Despite losing the battle, Kebab wore his battle wounds with pride!! Oyster and Patch keep a very watchful and careful distance from the grouchy silver tabby. Mr. C has more or else accepted the "interlopers" (Kebab and Oyster) but he keeps an eye on Patch. As for the silver tabby, she loves Mr. C and she will hiss or claw whenever she sees the other cats. My take on this.....the four cats will have to learn to get along. They usually will in the end.

Thursday, April 3, 2008

April Babies

It's my wall of fame for April celebrants. I like to wish "april hatchers" a very, very, happy, happy birthdays. Enjoy the day people!! Mantra of the month - "age is just a number"

1 April
N--k

Famous People
Ali MacGraw (actress)
Debbie Reynolds (actress)

5 April
L--a

Famous People
Colin Powell (military leader/politician)
Arthur Hailey (author)

21 April
K-k-
J---y P--s

Famous People
Sarah Michelle Geller (actress)
Tony danza (actor)

22 April
L--g L--g
H--i A--r

Famous People
Jack Nicholson (actor)
Immanuel Kant (philosopher)

25 April
N--a
S----a R--

Famous People
Rene Zellweger (actress)
Al Pacino (actor)

29 April
F---h

Famous People
Andre Agassi (tennis player)
Uma Thurman (actress)

30 April
K-----l

Famous People
kirsten Dunst (actress)
Gary Collins (actor)


Birthday Flower
The month of April is represented by the daisy. Daisies have long been associated with innocence.

Birthstone
Diamond; Sapphire.

Happy Birthday. May all of your birthday wishes come true.